Why I think you should still play video games

„Still?“ is the question I get asked most when I mention it.

„You still play video games?“

Yes.

Yes I do.

 

benefits of playing video games
Meet my main character, Asharra, a warlock

 

I started at the tender age of 11, on my C 64 with 5,25„ floppy disks and classics like „Bubble Bobble“, briefly touched on the whole „Age of Empire“ series in LAN-parties with friends and then discovered the world of MMORPG, namely World of Warcraft.

Which just released it´s latest addon, „Battle for Azeroth“, on August 14th.

Now my raiding days are behind me, I just can´t keep up equipmentwise with work, kids and the blog, but that doesn´t mean I won´t immerse myself into the new content as much as possible in the upcoming weeks.

To mask this period of less blog activity I did of course prepare several blog posts, one of them on why I think you, as a beauty lover, should consider playing too!

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Working from home – Patience

I always figured I was of the impatient kind. And that nothing in the world could ever change that.

As someone that was used to grasping new things quickly, I never really had the patience to sit down and try long and hard. That almost broke my neck in medical school, as some of the topics required me to just do things repeatedly until I had memorized them by heart – a concept that to this day doesn´t agree with me.

 

Working from home
Working from home

 

That is just the way it is, I told myself. I will lead a long, happy and impatient life.

And only get average grades at med school.

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How to make the most of a break

Don’t get me wrong, I love an evening on the couch binge watching Netflix as much as everyone else. But if you are really exhausted, that just won’t cut it in terms of recovery.

Emotional and mental fatigue are a common problem in these fast paced times, and they can have a huge impact not only on your quality of life, but on your creativity as well.

 

How to recharge your energy
How to recharge your energy

 

Not long ago I felt fatigué, was contemplating quitting this blog and You Tube and creating content was cumbersome (read why).

So what did I do to come back recharged and full of motivation?

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Red Lipstick Love – My story

I bet you have read it by now: Sali Hughes “A love letter to red lipstick”, published in British Vogues August 2018 issue.

“Red is for life, a state of mind, a personality type, a tribe. It’s beauty’s boldest, chicest, most iconic and attention-grabbing badass. And like all the best things, it’s simply not for everyone. But it is always, and forever, for me.“ Sali Hughes, „A love letter to red lipstick“, British Vogue 08/2018

 

AVON mark. Liquid Lip Lacquer Shine
One of my more recent additions – mark. by Avon

 

And in a world full of makeup trends that come and go, I agree. Red lipstick isn´t a trend. It is a state of mind.

10 years ago though, red lipsticks wasn´t something found in my bag. In fact, I was kind of a late bloomer in terms of red, starting to wear it at the no longer tender age of 29.

Makeup, yes, I wore makeup before that. Smokey eyes, heavy layers of foundation, I wasn´t shy in terms of painting my face. But I had read that thin lips don´t suit bold colors, and my insecure self stuck to neutrals and lip balm.

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Time flies – and how to slow it down again

I said in one of my last blog posts (this one) that despite what you heard, times does, indeed, NOT fly.

Ah, I can almost hear the shocked gasp in front of the computer screen!

 

Time flies
Why time doesn’t fly

 

How dare I, right now, at one of the peak points of “Where is the year gone” posts, sit here and state the opposite?

The other peak points are shortly after Christmas and on March 1st, just in case you hadn´t noticed before.

It seems to be a rite of passage in becoming an adult to sigh and mourn your lost youth, when summers seemed to last forever and a fortnight felt like an eternity.

Time flies, we will tell each other, nodding our heads. Time flies.

Well, it doesn’t. It is just your mind playing tricks on you.

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Creativity – Revisiting my New Years Goals 2018

Half of the year is gone by now, and while I don´t want to join the chorus of those that express their surprise about how time is flying (it isn´t, at least not always, but I will come to that another time), I do want to take the opportunity to reflect on how far I have come with what I wanted to achieve.

And to address upcoming changes, which I, ironically, also did six months ago, in my first blog post after my Christmas break. I promise it is not a series!

 

Revisiting my New Years Goals 2018
Sunset on the lake – southern part of Sweden

 

To get up to speed, I recommend you read the blogpost first (click) and then join me in dissecting how things have evolved since.

Back in January, after thinking long and hard about it, because thinking long and hard is what you do between Christmas and New Year Eve, as long as you are not feasting and getting drunk, which for me, with two little kids, rarely happens, so after thinking long and hard about it I decided I wanted to set up a strategy. For my blog. And for You Tube. A plan for me to decide which social media to focus on, where to invest my time, everything needed to work towards the goal of making money from blogging.

Which, complete honesty here, I still don’t do.

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Life Update: Why I am taking a break – LLL Vlogs 52

When I uploaded this vlog to You Tube, I did of course add tags. I mean, even if this is just a rambly video of me looking pretty worn because it was the end of a long day and I desperately needed to wash my hair, even then I want it to rank in You Tube search.

Actually, I have been reading a lot about SEO and ranking and videography lately, but I´ll get to that a little later.

 

Taking a break
Taking a break (picture taken by my mother)

 

So when I used the tag: „Taking a break“, I instantly got a ton of suggested tags along the lines of: „Life Update: Getting a divorce“ or „Life update: Why we broke up“. Which, I assure you guys, is totally NOT what has been going on lately.

I mean, we are not even „on a break“ in a Friends kind of way. We are perfectly fine.

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Gardening with kids – Our herb garden

You have heard me complain about our garden numerous times, either on social media or even on the blog here.

And I will keep complaining, this is just what I do, and gardening is a ton of work. But at the same time I am incredibly grateful for the opportunity I have to teach the kids.

 

Gardening with kids
Gardening with kids

 

I watched my mother grow herbs, cook jam from fruits in our garden, she even baked our bread from scratch back then. Now those were different times, it was near to impossible to buy organic, Tschernobyl had just happened and the importance of wholesome nutrition was on the rise.

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Clutter versus peace of mind

Ever since I moved out, I always had a clean and clutter free space. Which was actually kind of surprising for my parents, because all through adolescence my room was a huge mess.

Laundry, books, school papers – everything in piles on the floor. But as soon as I had my own space to take care of, that changed.

 

Garage clearout
Well prepared for the Zombie apocalypse!

 

I often wondered why that was the case, and for the longest time I thought it was a part of growing up and being more responsible. Or maybe due to the fact that when I threw the freshly washed laundry in a heap on the bed where it would slowly make its way to the floor to mix with the dirty laundry, it was a lot more work for me.

But interestingly enough, none of that was the actual reason.

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Too bloody blonde

I like to think that I am pretty clever.

I mean, I find my way around new situations quite easily, changed my field of profession without problems and even taught myself some new skills like basic coding and (even more basic) photography.

 

Reading recently
Reading recently

 

There are some days though when I feel as if this fridge magnet perfectly describes me:

 

So Bloody Blonde

 

Trying to find a solution for annoyances in daily life, building complicated ways around something while completely ignoring the obvious and easy way any sane person would take.

Case in point? Reading.

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